My Inspiration

You are my inspiration
You’re the voice that soothes the hurt on my soul,
Extinguishing all perspiration that
Causes people to slip from my elevation.
With just a sound, a touch, a
Breath that--exhales--all the life and--
Inhales--all the growth of knowing that
Showing trueness----genuinely expressing
The heart, the mind, the soul-gets you higher
To that goal, or maybe just makes the road
Easier to travel.
You are my inspiration
Your vision helps incite decisions in the
Hearts of many who would have otherwise left undriven.
You show through your touch-fingers, hands
Lips-that beauty lies not within the eye of the
Beholder, but in the spirit of one-
You-Me-Him-Her-We-Us
All have a light that would have otherwise
Gone unnoticed;
Eyes open to all around me.
You are my inspiration


I Love You Mommy
-your son

In Love with Love Versus in Love with You

Many people, if honest, will admit that they're in love with love. They enjoy romance, the beautiful feeling of infatuation and the tremendous energy and happiness that come from being in love.

As people approach life and love from a desire to be in love, a true chemical reaction takes place in their heads. The emotions are set and they go out looking for love. However, what some are really doing is looking for someone to attach their emotions to. That is, they are in love with love, but not really with another person. When they meet a willing participant who may be of the same mind, and in love with love, too, together these two people strike up a chemical connection. Is that a bit cynical? Stay with me.

So, how do you know whether you're in love with love or really in love with the other person you claim to love? Here is my own personal list to tell the difference:

You ask the other person questions to learn about their mind, heart and soul. If all you do is tell them you love them and don't even know them, you are in love with love, not the other person.

You care about the other's person's life and the details of his or her life. Again, you don't live in a fantasy and just talk romantic, you find out what they do, how they feel, what's going on in their heads, with their families, their work, etc.

You put the other person's needs and wants above your own. Unconditional love is the foundation of being in love. Lust is not love. Infatuation is not love. If all you do is think about having sex with this other person, and don't really care to make them a part of your life and you a part of their's, then you're in love with love, not the other person.

You pay attention to how they make you feel and how you make them feel. You're sensitive to not jumping to the wrong conclusion. There is trust. There is understanding. There is a real connection that isn't threatened either by the past, present or future. The relationship is secure...not one of ups and downs continually based on whether or not they call, write or show up on time.

You actually like them, not just love and want them. Many times people who are in love with love do not even LIKE the person they've "attached their in love feelings to." If you spend half your time trying to change the other person, you don't really love them. You love yourself and are trying to make them fit your idea of perfect. Acceptance is a big part of true love.

You do not consider yourself better or worse than the one you love. You continually strive to be at one and at unity with the one you love, but many times it happens naturally because of the connection you share. There is nothing fake about the relationship.

You don't pretend to like what they like to make them believe you're like them. Why would you do that anyway? Being in love with love often causes people to lose their identity and try to be like the other person. When you're in love with the other person, each one respect's each other's hobbies and interests without forcing themselves to be like the other person. For example, I would never pretend to be a sports fan for a guy. Guess that's why I never dated jocks or if I did, it lasted only 5 minutes.

True love is always there...always real...always caring...it is unconditional and never abandons the object of one's affection. If in your life you were in love with love, you can be sure you abandoned the one you claimed to love. That's the nature of infatuation and being in love with love.

http://mobile.associatedcontent.com/article/57233/in_love_with_love_versus_in_love_with.html

I will not take credit for this post but I did want to share it with those who follow me. 

Space Age Pimpin... Fo Real!!

so someone sent this to me as a joke....I couldn't help it...

Trying To Get My Stable Racing Again!...

I AM THE RIGHT PERSON IF YOU SEEK GUIDANCE AND PROSPERITY IN LIFE. YOU DON'T NEED TO BE ALONE. LET ME SHOW YOU THE WAY. I AM READY,WILLING,AND ABLE TO SHOW YOU THE RULES OF THE GAME. THIS IS NO FAKE AD SO NO FAKE REPLIES. IF YOU SEEK PRADA,GUCCI,FENDI AND MORE THIS IS THE WAY. IF YOU WANT YOUR HAIR ,NAILS,AND FEET DID THIS IS THE WAY. IF YOU DREAM OF TRAVELING THE COUNTRY AND HAVING ALL WANTS AND NEEDS ANSWERED THIS IS THE WAY. BY ALL MEANS THIS IS REAL PIMPIN NO B$LLSH$T. NO MISUNDERSTANDING. THIS IS NOT THE FAKE SHIT ON TV AND VIDEOS. I AM SEEKING REAL POTENTIAL RIGHT NOW . THIS IS NO REST HAVEN FOR HOES. YOU MUST BE SERIOUS AND READY TO TRAVEL ASAP. IF INTERESTED AND YOU LIKE MY SWAGGER EMAIL ME WITH NAME,NUMBER,AND PICTURES

http://washingtondc.backpage.com/AdultJobs/trying-to-get-my-stable-racing-again/3769654

In the the years of technology... it seems even pimpin has become a bitch to the digital age...but the game dont change just the players...
With the classifieds website Craigslist falling under scrutiny for allowing the posting of prostitution ads and the quick and impromptu manner in which they got rid of their 'Adult Services' section, it  would seem that people are still going to do what they damn sure want to do.

But I digress...on to the actual post....

He promised you the world...He promised to teach you, to be a provider...He promised you worldly travel...He promised to upgrade your lifestyle

"Say bye to Reebok/Say hi to Chanel/Say hi to Gucci/Prada as well/take a look in mirror mommy/be proud of yourself" -Sean Carter


But what he didn't tell you...




yeah that's right...thats what he meant......but it sounded like this...



until you came up short with HIS money...

A HOE'S PLACE!!!
I wonder if someone actually answered the ad back. Like what goes in a mind of a person sitting there reading this.. "Oooh girl he going to take me round the world!" Umm no bitch the farthest you going is Atlantic City on the Bolt Bus...and when you dont provide, you become his personal stress reliever and punching bag...its not Gucci, Fendi nor Prada if he gets it from Canal Street....

Do Better ...it's a movement

Ain't That Bout a Bitch...

Has this ever happened to you??

Its 79 degrees out...
you got the windows down...
you just uploaded fresh new music to your iPod...
and you're hitting the city streets...
riding around.....
just a man and his music....

and then you see this...


on one  of these...


next thing you know...
your whole focus changes....
now you're checking your hair...
now you're debating on how much your seat should be reclined
(too far = you look like a thug....too high = you look like a geek)


and you are even looking for your manliest ...R&B track
...oh shit didnt you just add "Deuces" to your playlist???
you frantically search your iPod and almost crash...




(that track is fiyah...fuck it, I said it...bet you wasn't ready to like Chris Brown again huh..more to come on that subject... its ok, you can let the track ride)

So you got everything in check...
you apply a lil gas to your engine....
adjust the level of your music..
you're ready...
speeding up...
getting closer...
you look over and see...



Ain't That Bout A Bitch....

I dont know whats more sad?

1. You driving your girl's car with her sorority plate on it because its better than your car. Do you know what elite group of men that puts you in. She's not even in the car with you. Why are you flossin' her shit? Are you taking it to get new tires? Go sit your ass somewhere!!

2. Me, the pressed asshole who defied several traffic laws just to pull up to your ass....


Do Better People...its a movement

I Can't Wait Til Get You Home Tonight...Literally

Use to be the lyrics to one of my favorite Foxy Brown tracks... But I mean wtf.... hasn't riding public transportation already proven difficult enough...you got panhandlers, bums, musicians, the overweight mofo who sits on one side of you and pins you to the onion guy on the other side. Not to mention the hoards of loud ass, ghetto ass teenagers just acting ignant (yeah that's how I spelled it). You've just realized you forgot your headphones and all you want to do is get to work or home...then you have to watch two unattractive lesbos muff diving right across from you. I mean they wasn't even trying to fake it. Listen...dont take this post as I'm anti-gay. By no means is this true. Do you! But there should be some unspoken rule that only 9 and up lesbians get to make out in public. I mean if you truly want acceptance of homosexuality, you're going to have to make it more appealing to those who fight aimlessly against it. I mean look at vampirism. Im sure back in the day being a pale, blood sucking demon who has not ties to society before 9 pm wasn't the "in" thing. Groups of people showing up at your home with torches, garlic, crosses and holy water is proof that you're probably not the most liked neighbor in your town...

I mean they didn't even try to make vampires look appealing...



But then, such as most things, when they want it to be accepted...it was gradually flooded into pop culture....



 Tom Cruise



Brad Pitt



Then they smartened up and tapped int the teen crowd. And once they made being a vampire "it"
...the adults had to get in on it



See what I mean...Halloween is coming up....watch!!
But I digress...
So if you ever want THIS....



to be accepted in OUR culture....

(and this is just my opinion and I tend to give it at times)

It should be carried out by women that looks like this....



or this...



but until then...UNTIL THEN... lets stay away from this..



and this....



aaaaaand this....



ooops...just saying (kanye shrug)

but definitely this....



and once us dumb Americans get on board



then this wont even be an issue.....trust me...I know shit


KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE...
until then